johanp said: free your mind and stay, man. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
I don't think that means what you think it means.
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" basically means "everyone else's opinion is as valid as my own," which is completely contradictory to trying to convince other people to see your way on things.
I behold a disturbing pic and a commenter with poor taste in fetishes...